I have now spent quite a few years reading the teachings and gathering the knowledge from several authors such as Cheryl Richardson, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Eckhart Tolle, and The Teachings of Abraham by Esther and Jerry Hicks…Just to name a few. And they all point to the same message…WE ARE TOTALLY IN CONTROL OF OUR OWN LIFE EXPERIENCES!!! The thoughts and energy that we put out into the world are the very things that create our experiences. What we think about the most…What we give our energy to…good or bad…That is what is created for us. So if you think about not ever having enough money, then you are always going to have not enough money. If you think about not ever finding true love, then you are going to experience not ever finding true love. If you are always thinking and talking about how miserable your life is, then you are going to be given a miserable life. But if you think about how much love you have in your life, then love is going to come your way. If you are thankful for being able to pay your bills, then money will continue to come to you. If you enjoy life, then it will continue to bring happiness into your life. It’s called the law of attraction…your thoughts, words, and actions are energy… and what energy you put out into the world actually creates your experiences. If you can take the time to find a little happiness in each day, then you will start to see more happiness come to you. The more grateful you are will bring more things to be grateful for.
Once you understand that you are creating your own reality, now you can intentionally set forth positive thoughts and words to bring more good stuff into your life. You will become an active participant in creating your experiences. Discover what it is that you really want. When you know exactly what you want, now you can take positive steps towards achieving that goal. Find something to be happy about, be grateful for the smallest steps of growth, and allow the positive changes to bring you your dreams… But you must be willing to be thankful for it all. You must look into the hard times and see the lessons. You must be willing to evaluate, forgive, and grow in the knowing that every event (good, bad, or ugly) is helping you to get a step closer to what you really want. Losing your job gives you the opportunity to pursue your passion and find a job that makes you happy. Getting a divorce allows you to get to know who you really are and find someone with those same values. Being forced to move residency allows you to find the home of your dreams. Being forced to stop settling is the opportunity to find your bliss. You must be open to the changes and trust that they are helping you fulfill your dreams. Find the courage to say “yes” to opportunities.
Learn who you are and what you want out of life. Life should be happy…you can get everything you want, but you first have to know what it is that you want. So listen to your heart and find out what you want. Let go of the past…forgive and be okay with it. The past is just a tool to let you know what you don’t want, so that you can now concentrate on what you do want. You must open your heart to the new possibilities and be grateful for everything that flows to you. Take care of what you have and make space for what you want…you will never get what you truly want by holding onto what you are just settling for. Take steps towards your happy future, be grateful for and learn from everything that happens, and trust that you will get what you want because you now understand that you are the one who creates your own future.