Let happiness find you

The youth of today give me such inspiration…

My My oldest is off in college…It is a challenge and he encounters many obstacles.  He is faced with questions about his future as well as pushes and pulls from a few adults in his life… relatives, teachers, and friends that aren’t cued into his what will make him happy.  He worries just like every other young adult when faced with growing up and moving on.

I asked him about his hopes, worries, and relationships… His words to me were, “I’m just living my life the best I can and letting it all come to me.”  To that I say…YYYEEESSS!!!  I’m going to add to that statement that we should all practice our passion, find the positive in each moment, and strive for the peace that comes in the knowing that life will bring us exactly what we need to live in happiness… We just have to look for it and tune into it.

It’s the positive outlook in life that will bring you all that you want.  The ability to find the silver lining will help you to evolve and reach for the next adventure.  There is more than enough of everything in this world…You just have to open your eyes and see it,  open your heart and feel it, open your soul and remember it.  This is your journey, make it what you want it to be.  Don’t worry about anyone else’s journey, we all have different agendas.  Strive to get the most happiness out of this adventure that you are on.  And remember,  scarcity and loss are an illusion brought on by fear.  Be thankful for the little things and they will grow with the positive energy of your gratitude.

Slow down and enjoy the ride.  Get to know yourself… who you really are, what you really want out of life, and how you feel about it all.  I see so many people that are miserable from dawn to dusk.  Their mood plummets with  every negative thing that they search for.  They hate their job, or relationship, or body, this movie, or that driver, etc… They can always find a reason to be mad.

WHY??? This is madness at the core…Instead of spending your energy looking for the bad, try spending less energy and find something good.  And if you can’t find the good, then leave the situation and find something more pleasing… Just because you are afraid to be alone doesn’t mean you should stay in that relationship, just because you are afraid to not have money doesn’t mean you should stay at that job, just because your afraid to be away from your family doesn’t mean you shouldn’t move out on your own… Just because you are afraid doesn’t mean that you don’t have a choice!!!  You are missing out on the next fun adventure because you are afraid to let go of what is making you miserable.

Say yes to yourself, to happiness, and to life…Enjoy what life brings you and move onto the next adventure with happiness at your core.

You are good enough

There is enough to go around

There is always something to be grateful for

I promise you… your life will only get better when you get rid of fear and anxiety and look for the happiness that is waiting for you in each moment of every day.  You have the power to change your mood and change your life.  So let the happiness come.